Brenda Alene (Trapp) Vanderburg, 60, was born on June 25, 1963, in Hugo, OK, the daughter of Herman Trapp and Dorothy (Wheeler) Trapp. She was preceded in death by her father, Herman; and brother, Michael Trapp.

Brenda was a lifelong resident of Ft. Towson, OK and worked as a log crane operator for many years. However, Brenda's full-time job was caring for her family, and it was her greatest joy in life. She would do anything for her family and was always calling to check on how everyone was doing, sometimes several times a day. In Brenda's spare time, she loved going to garage sales and auctions. She was always on the hunt for a good bargain and to find things she could decorate with. Brenda was a loving daughter, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt and friend to many. She will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved her.

Brenda is survived by her mother, Dorothy Trapp of Fort Towson, OK; husband, Dwayne Bilby of Valliant, OK; sons, Terry Trapp and wife, Susan of Paris, TX, Taylor Barnes and wife, Mystin of Sawyer, OK and Tanner Trapp and wife, Alycia of Chicota, TX; grandchildren, Hayden Barnes, Jaxson Barnes, Logan Trapp, Declan Trapp, Ryder Trapp, Canden Wisener, Paxton Wisener, Shaylie Hilton, Serenity Hilton, Aiden Hilton, Calliope Hilton and AJ Hilton; brothers, Randy Trapp and wife, Sandra of Davis, OK, Ronnie Trapp and wife, Karen of Ft. Towson, OK and Bobby Trapp and wife Leann of Arthur City, OK; along with a host of other friends, family and loved ones.